It sounds like you've been doing some fun activities with your kids which I think is great.
One positive thing for me, is that H & I do not have kids together so I don't hear stories about what he is doing and vice versa. I'm sure it's hard to have your kids tell you things.
I think you are doing well with your GAL activities.
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