Yes, go pamper yourself! I always feel like a million bucks after I do a little something for myself. A week after H left, I went and got my hair cut and colored, the way I liked it and didn't care if he would like it or not. I love it!
I think the fact that you are in M counseling together is a good sign. Just try to take things one day at a time and practice patience, patience, patience.
"Everyone you meet has baggage. Find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack." ¤Formerly DelinquentGurl¤