74 Days - Who Knows?

[cat04]

Denver,

How would I handle it?

Well, how I handled similar situations...

The first, I got her fired.

The next, I met with her, had a conversation, hugged her, and called her husband.

Next, called her and was not very nice.

The last, I ignored.

The first three, I felt good for about 15 minutes.

The last, I feel good about myself. There was no need for me to have anything to do with her.

The truth is, each of them, has since, had much worse things happen to them in their lives (small town, big gossip).

I didn't have to do the things I did to make their lives miserable, because their lives became miserable anyway.

It wasn't worth it, but it was a lesson that I had to learn the hard way.

Did I put full trust back into my H and my M right away after each incident?

No. He earned it again the first three times. Unfortunately, he then broke it again down the road.

So, if that happened in my new R?

I probably wouldn't say too much, except maybe, probably goodbye.

We will hope that my ability to character assess and be a great partner has improved this time