New - HELP! Tried the 180/Last Resort & Failed

[AloneAt35]

I still believe he's being scammed, and OW may continue putting off moving in with him. Has he told you how much he's already invested by giving her money or preparing a new place for her?

Sandi,

Believe me, I sometimes think about that. He has met her though "in person" and they have spent several weekends together so we know she's not a man!

Still, its weird about her changing her name, and weird that she would hide her son, and weird that he can't go to her house, and also weird that they were talking marriage and she declared her love after just a few dates.

I asked him many weeks ago if she had asked for money, and he said "NO!" But then in our last conversation, I was apologizing to him for not being able to pay him back for a utility bill that he paid on my behalf when he learned the phone was getting shut off. And he said "What is it with 'you people' not being able to accept help"...and I said who is "you people?" And he said, "You and OW."

That made me think that maybe he is helping her with some money.

Regarding the move-in being delayed, I remember that dbmod said "I had more time than I think" and then sure enough, the move-in together was delayed for more than a month - so maybe it will be delayed again.

Gotta run, losing my internet!