they'll be damaged anyhow. Their mother left their father...(oh yeah, that)
You are doing damage control now. It's called stability and that's huge to kids and courts. Plus, dare I say where you are living now (Bay?)
is going to be a lot better for them than NM.
But I'm snobby that way.
And your mom will have to work on yelling of hers, but at least she's not bedridden with headaches
(that sounds meaner than I meant it to...yikes! This is spreading )
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016