Herb , to me it sounds like you resent being accountable to your wife.

I offer this for you to ponder:


" To a person in arrested development, accountability looks like authority. As someone matures, accountability is safety."

BITS
Me-51, WAS-52
Kids 2
M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013
Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice.
Love is a action and choice you make, every day.