why'd you even call this thread "Courage to move forward"
when you are not moving anywhere?
You are waiting for your miracle, and being exactly the same as you were before he left...
which does NOT motivate your h to return.
He gets to be a dad to his son, doesn't have to divide assets the way a divorce would
and I suppose OW doesn't give up anything either b/c she gets the benefits of being married
AND having her lover, (your legal h), with her...sounds like a win win for them.
And you are doing nothing to change that.
So, do you think God owes you a miracle?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
