Can My Marriage Be Saved?

[a girl]

Some more detail from today - H does a Costco trip every Saturday morning. Last week he bought filet because he's worried I haven't been eating enough. This week he bought me mini-cinnamon rolls, BBQ pork, and crab for crab cakes - and texted me 5 times from the store (to ask about TP and then make some funny comments).

I thanked him for the food and told him it was sweet of him to think of me. As far as the texts - I responded to 2 of them - the initial question about if we needed TP, and then the fourth one about funny TP names. Other than that, I let them be. I'm trying to not be the last person to "speak" (let his text be the last one, let his email be the last one).

This kind of behaviour confuses me, though.