I read often, but I haven't been posting lately. I have extemely little time, but I care about you.
I so believe in miracles, and I experience them all throughout my life.
What God NEVER does is get in the way of someone's free will. Your husband and this woman will ALWAYS have free choice.
The second thing I learned about miracles--you have to get out of the way of God. And you aren't doing that. You're in the way. I've done the same thing, and I recognize it.
DB is one of your miracles here. Your DB coach. Your DB friends. MOST of the advice you have been given is encouraging, and showing you how to go about this.
Posting and praying only don't do it. They just don't. You aren't DBing and you tell God....I want you to do this and I want you to do this MY way. THEY are the sinners, and I want you to turn it around.
Ask God to soften YOUR heart. To show YOU how to extend HIS mercy. And I promise you HE has already answered this. Bond et al....have really been God's messengers to you.
We like you, we care about you.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
