Fool me once, Shame on ME

[Denver_2010]

The woman continues to perplex me.

She texted me last night at 1:30 about me dropping off son when she wakes up from her nights. ( She is has been on nights for the last 3)

I responded: Ok

Then in a rather annoyed text tone. She said , ARe you going to respond to this in a timely manner or are you going to ignore my text like most of them.

Then she immediately responded with a " Thank you for the prompt response"

She did text me a few more things but I cant remember what they were.

She seems to text quite a bit. That isnt normal is it? I know people will say she is trying to keep me on the hook. I wish I knew what she was thinking.

Who cares ! Right?

9

You care 9. Bc you are still here and are still hopeful that your M can ultimately be saved. And that is OKAY man. There is nothing wrong with that. That is why we come here in the first place. To save our M's.

Okay... so the text messages. IMO, your W is wondering WTF is going on. For so long you were on the hook and she knew it.... she could rely upon it.. and she could do whatever she wanted bc of it.

Now, she senses that you are not. She sees you going out. She sees you taking an overnight bag with you. She sees you GALing. And she's beginning to wonder if you have truly wiggled off the hook.

So the text messages are your W testing you and taking your temperature... to see where your head is with wanting her back.

My guess is that the next thing that you will see is your W becoming very angry that you are not responding or acting the way that she wants you to, i.e., interested in her and jumping to talk to her. Again, this is a test for you to remain calm and be the new you.

Keep doing what you are doing 9. It seems to be working... it's doing something that's for sure.

BITS
Denver