Last nights covnersation wasn't about trying to save anything. It was more of a relationship autopsy. I was doing mcuh better dropping the rope the last few days and preparing for divorce. It seems like every time I think I have things figured out, something changes. The worst part of last night was S17 saying he doesn't want to live with D19 and I. That makes me so sad. I hate knowing he is unhappy. It also affects all the logistics and legalities. The bottom line - I think it's impossible to break up a family and have things go well. Yes, you can make it the best possible, but sometimes the best possible is still pretty crappy.
Her line about not wanting to be married, but belonging together atually does make sense to me. We had something very special - a bond unlike most others. We do belong together, but that doesn't mean she wants to be together. She was simply admitting that she knows the way "it should be", even though it can't be.
