Sounds like you handled that conversation very well LB. I think that you are right, your W probably does not have an attorney at this point.
You are also very smart to tell your mom that she is going to be a target just as much as you. She needs to be on very good behavior... as do you.
Anyway, nicely done.
Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce