Yes, we come here to save our marriage, but it does take two, long term, to do that. This is our journey too. I have no quarrel with people who continue to stand, with people like myself who are not standing, but are not in another relationship, or with people who have given it their best shot and then meet someone else.
We are doing the journey in our own way. I might meet someone else, I might reconcile [unlikely] or I may stay on my own - which is 'right'? All three are legitimate options imo.
