I got a perfect example on how well-meaning friends can make you feel awful when dealing with W.
Haven't seen most of my F in a week since I've been sick. Met up with a couple that's getting married in two weeks that are good friends. At one point guy tells me that he feels weird around W and OM and figured that since I wouldn't be out last Wednesday that he could plan activity that those two would like. He also told me that they were going camping together this weekend and next. I knew about next weekend, and I know another actual couple is going, but didn't know about this weekend and really didn't need that information. What is known can't be unknown...
Got an email back today from W regarding parking for the concert in two days: Thanks for the heads up.
I got a netflix movie for you in the mail yesterday. I can leave it at the house or in the mail box and you can pick it up Saturday if you would like, I won't be home.
I have not decided what to do about parking. Do you know if the buses are running that night? I'll probably figure it out Sunday morning:) I will let you know if I need directions. Thanks for the offer.
I wasn't going to ask what she had planned for Saturday, but I guess know now. My friend even said that hanging out at the bar is one thing, but going camping together was another. For that reason (among others) he and fiance aren't going next weekend as it makes them uncomfortable.
I figure I'll respond to W's email Sunday morning. No buses past 6:30 Sunday, and I'm not going over to the house to get my movie. She can send it back; I actually had the wrong movie at the top of my queue so I'd rather get what I was hoping for instead.
I hope I can keep myself busy the next two days until the concert.
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011