Just try to remember that when you pursue her, even if just a quick TM, it is as if you are pushing her away from you. If she gets enough of those pushes, she won't return. However, if she begins to miss you b/c she hasn't heard from you......she's more likely to search you out.
It's good that you are thinking of something to do this weekend. That's a start! Maybe you could check some pawn shops to get a guitar and brush up on the strings again. My H loves to look around pawn shops, go to garage sales, etc. It's a way to click off a few hours.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
