Anytime I say something you don't know how to think or not sure what I'm talking about, please tell me.

Thank you for sharing that information about your W. She has a lot of emotional stuff to carry around. I know you worry a lot. Loving her as you do, it makes it hard not to be concerned if she's taking care. I think she'll turn to you b/c you are the one she has relied upon for so long.

My little town rolls up its sidewalk after sunset, so not much action to fall back GAL. (lol) However, our three page newspaper announces various things going on each week. You might start looking in your local paper. What type of things did you like before M? Sports, music, shows, hobbies, games, maybe get back into some of that. If you have one friend to pal around with you, that would help a lot, however, I do understand how a shortage of friends happen.

I hope you can begin to have a life that will bring happiness. You sound like a wonderful, caring person.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!