I have actually done that exact thing. I was not in a healthy place emotionally and feeling kind of anxious, unstable, and vulnerable. NOT a good place to be in when dating (I think). I told the guy I was recently divorced and spending some time learning what I needed to do to be an amazing partner in my next relationship.
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10