You know what Denver said in your last thread is something to think about. Call the W and let her know what is coming and when all else fails blame the attorney. It always works. sorry 25, Denver, Count, harrier, and any other's out there.
Look I will not sugar coat anything for you at this point. Your sitch and mine are very similar and apart from Karma I don't know of any other sitch on the boards right now that have to deal with the distance factor.
In my mind it is a HUGE problem at any attempts to saving anything.
However
You must also realize that the word NEVER is a very powerful word and should not be used when referring to these situations.
Distance is a problem but is also has its up side.
The downside is that you can't have the physical contact that you would have if you lived in the same town. You changes and actions can not been seen only spoken about and while it is true that you can show change even at a distance nothing can replace seeing the person.
The upside is that you really have no choice but to really concentrate on yourself. You are not doing anything to "show" her anything because there is no one there to see it. You heal quicker because you are not faced with the constant reminder. In this case TIME and SPACE does heal.
IF you are able to reconcile this in the future then you know what, she will find a way to you. The same effort put into establishing her new life can be put into rebuilding her R with you.
You have something I did not have.
Children together so in some way you will always be connected.
sorry 25, Denver, Count, harrier, and any other's out there. 