"If an opportunity arises and someone comes into my life, I'd be happy to go on a date. But, I'm not sure I'm where I need to be emotionally and spiritually to have that person come into my life. Are you?"

The first question is the key. If the opportunity arises, I'd be happy to go on a date. Yes. Yes. Yes.

What's the opposite, if the opportunity arises and someone comes into my life, should I just tell her I'll call you in six months when the manual says I'm ready?

Everyone's concerns are noted. I'm ready for whatever is next in my life.


Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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