Originally Posted By: LearningPatience
GAL,
my ILs and I also get along great. We're very close. I've been able to tell them when I'm down and when things are going well. I don't know how close you are with MIL, so I'd probably stick with the upbeat GAL you. I probably wouldn't get into a long talk about getting W back, maybe mention it in passing if MIL brings it up.

I say this because I found out (it should have been crystal clear before this) that MIL and W *will* talk. Even if their R is strained, W is still MILs daughter. If you keep things positive and upbeat on your end, all MIL can say to your W is that you are doing well.


Thanks LP, just what I was thinking

That's 1 thing I have learnt from these boards, take onboard the advise


Me - 37
W - 38
D - 14
S - 12
Together - 16
Married - 12
Bomb - April 13, 2011
W moved out - May 13, 2011

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