GAL, my ILs and I also get along great. We're very close. I've been able to tell them when I'm down and when things are going well. I don't know how close you are with MIL, so I'd probably stick with the upbeat GAL you. I probably wouldn't get into a long talk about getting W back, maybe mention it in passing if MIL brings it up.
I say this because I found out (it should have been crystal clear before this) that MIL and W *will* talk. Even if their R is strained, W is still MILs daughter. If you keep things positive and upbeat on your end, all MIL can say to your W is that you are doing well.
Thanks LP, just what I was thinking
That's 1 thing I have learnt from these boards, take onboard the advise
Me - 37 W - 38 D - 14 S - 12 Together - 16 Married - 12 Bomb - April 13, 2011 W moved out - May 13, 2011
The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more