You know what? I think that I would politely warn W that it is coming and blame the attorney.
I would NOT back off of any of the substance of the letter. But I would tell her that you had not wanted all of the dirty laundry put in the court record unless necessary and that you don't think that it was necessary at this point.
I would do this bc it is going to p!ss her off to no end LB. If she hasn't retained counsel yet, there is a good chance that she will now.
Maybe you can put her at ease somewhat by giving her a heads up.
BITS Denver
Thank you for this advice Denver. This will help me out a great deal. I don't plan on doing anything on writing.
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