[Denver_2010]

I'd suggest asking your attorney if you can look at any future letter prior to filing or mailing.

Then, I'd suggest posting them here just to get some feedback

I will definitely be posting any letters here in the future to get feedback. A very difficult lesson learned. Hopefully not a costly one.

You know what? I think that I would politely warn W that it is coming and blame the attorney.

I would NOT back off of any of the substance of the letter. But I would tell her that you had not wanted all of the dirty laundry put in the court record unless necessary and that you don't think that it was necessary at this point.

I would do this bc it is going to p!ss her off to no end LB. If she hasn't retained counsel yet, there is a good chance that she will now.

Maybe you can put her at ease somewhat by giving her a heads up.

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Denver