CTH, YES! Life is about moving forward, but I think that doesn't necessarily mean dating. You sound busy, busy and moving forward with things for yourself and your kids. What's wrong with just spending some time working, playing, and breathing. Figuring out what comes next. I'm reading a book "Calling in the One" and hoping to do enough work on myself that I can be the person I would want to date. Does that make sense? If an opportunity arises and someone comes into my life, I'd be happy to go on a date. But, I'm not sure I'm where I need to be emotionally and spiritually to have that person come into my life. Are you? Yikes!! You don't want to be happily single? In my opinion, you MUST get there first and be okay with being alone before attempting to date. Your validation and love must come from YOU not from someone else. Then you'll be in the position to not repeat the same old patterns and attract the same type of person who was not a match for you last time. There's plenty of time and you're young....believe me, you will have no problem attracting women of all ages when you are ready. But, you want to attract 'quality' women, so spend this time on YOU!
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
