Scylla you helped me to look at myself and I did. I admitt that I still do not like praise, but I have with your advice come to accept it, graciously.

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I can't seem to overcome my aggrievement.


While what I am about to say is going to sound zen, or like a freaking hallmark moment.

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I can't seem to overcome my aggrievement.


That is your choice. And the rest of your life will be defined by it. You can either hold onto your grudge (yes I just put all your hurt and pain into a simple little word) like an evil little teddy bear.

Or you can fear yourself from this, and how it will shape you.

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I can't seem to overcome my aggrievement.


Look around, you have to know someone like this in your life. Are they examples you want to be? Or are they as I imagine bitter people, snide, pessemistic?

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Be excellent to each other.


And look around again, you also know people like this.


Who do you want to be?


Its a choice.



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet