I agree with you guys. It is very unlikely that she is lying about being with her gf. This friend is also very good friends with W's sister... and W's sister has been very critical of W's actions over the past 7 months. So I don't think that W would risk using this particular gf as an alibi or even as a story as to where she is.

I also agree that she is testing me. I don't think that I will have any problems passing this one though. I actually feel MUCH better knowing that W is out of town and with her friends. So I'm just going to let her be while she is gone.

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quick update...

W posted on FB last night: "The five hour drive was good therapy. Now it's time for beer and girl time!"

The 'therapy' comment is interesting, but I'm not going to try and read into it.

Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce