She texted me a few minutes later that she was at her sister's (as she had told me she would be a couple of day earlier), and that she would call me later.
W called at about 9:30 p.m. We spoke for 30 minutes.
W and I talked about what she had been doing for the past couple of nights. I did ask her some prying questions in an attempt to confirm things.
I'm sure that W picked up on that, but answered my questions without objection.
I suppose she could have lied about some or all of her answers... but I didn't get that impression.
Everything with the conversation was really pleasant.
At the end of the conversation, I told W that I hoped that she had fun visiting her friend (she was leaving this morning to drive to her gf's house in southern Colorado)... that she could touch base with me if she liked... but that otherwise, I'd let her do her thing.
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W sent a text to her mom, her sister, and to me tonight letting us know that she had gotten to the town where her gf lives safely and that she'd be in touch.
I texted a short reply thanking her for letting me know and to tell her gf hello for me.
That's it for now!
Denver
I smell a rat, but it's not the rat everyone probably THINKS I smell. Ordinarily, I"m a big "trust but verify" guy, and I'd be suspicious of ANY "trip to see a g/f" a wayward wife would have so soon after not completely pushing OM out of her life. 9 times out of 10, it's an EA-going-PA.
I think your wife is with her g/f, and she's testing you. To see if you'll snoop on her, check up on her, believe her. DON'T TAKE THE BAIT. She still reeks of resentment and entitlement (altho she's coming around), and I think she's just ITCHING to tell you -- and everyone -- "See? SAME OL' DENVER, CONTROL FREAK IS CHECKING UP ON ME! I CAN'T LIVE LIKE THIS!!!"
