Thank you for this post, Denver. I have been struggling with my own anger and disappointment about my W's continued EA, and recently have been ready to throw in the towel. You words hit home and brought clarity to my thinking.

Sorry to hijack the thread, 2step.

H 56
W 48
D27,S21
SS25
SS22 Severely autistic
M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs.
"I've never loved you" 3/7/2011
Separated 8/7/2011
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