My worry is the opposite of what you are saying. I worry if I don't actively get out there and look I'll just melt into a life of work, working out, kids ... For me, it'd be easy to do that. I have four jobs, the kids 45 percent of the time and basketball/softball/tennis/swimming to play.
Ah, so you're going to date out of fear? That was my point, when we're afraid of something we feel we must jump right out there and do battle. Date because you're ready to date, not because you're afraid not to. That's a lot of pressure to put on yourself so soon after the big D. But, that said, you have to do what you feel is best for you!
