It really was about satisfying my needs. I admit it. Now, I have to go back to dark and stay away from that burner.

D19 and S17 bought STBX a necklace for her bday. D19 just told me that STBX couldn't even put the necklace on by herself since her fingers were so swollen from her arthritis/lupus. She must be flaring again. I actually feel sorry for her, but will keep that to myself.


50 years old.

Ontario, Canada

Loving Marriage #2 with the perfect person.