So...am I still a newcomer?

[any chance?]

Tele:
Hang in there. Thanks for your comments on my sitch. I am having some bad days, as you are. We need to hang in there. Work on ourselves. Keep the faith in ourselves. We married women we loved. Somewhere that person is still there, just buried deeply, I think.

We have to give it time, and keep on our paths. Keep on our paths until we simply cannot do it anymore. Sometimes that time seems like now, but deep down we both know it is not. People here tell us time is our friend. I hope they are right. I am not ready to throw in the towel. It ain't fun, but it has to happen, I think. One day at a time, my friend, one day at a time.