Thanks IB. This really is at the very beginning. Just a couple of dates. As I said, he lives 2 hours away and I am trying to keep my head above water, so I am taking it real slow.
But, yes, it is nice to have a friend who enjoys my company. I lost so much of myself in my marriage and more still when all this hit. It is nice to be made to feel respected and cared about.
Hey True, have missed you. Hope you caught some fish. Thanks for your kind words. And you need to embrace your foo foo side. LOL!
As always, my prayers are with you. And finding a bit of comfort in a new friend, even if it is never anything but friendship, is still a wonderful thing. Keep passing the open windows. (((hugs))))
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011
I hear what you are saying. Facing my fears is still my weak spot. The thing I most have to still work on. Well, that and reaching out.
I love you, too, my friend.
Hey Punkin, think about you often. I keep trying to pass those open windows, and with my luck, I remember to duck in case something comes flying in. LOL!
Time will tell if he feels he is lucky to spend time with me or lucky to get out alive - LOL!
Really, this was unexpected.And of course, me being me, I had to take some time to process it all.
In between, I am livin' my life.
Taking time to process is a sign you are NOT in MLC! It is these guys who meet up and 'fall in love', and suddenly throw away their previous lives that are crazy. As for you: feisty yes, sane, undeniably. Have fun taking it nice and slow. Like everyone else here, I couldn't be more pleased you have met someone nice.
