Denver, I agree with everything you said. Every word. Now what does anything you said have to do with the LBS "mind reading", or "not being fair" to the WAS or not reacting with anger (or fear) if our S decides to "window shop".
Boundaries Denver. It's about what is or is not acceptable behavior.
It's about respect for yourself.
Growing and learning is necessary. And accepting our roll is necessary.
There is absolute value on this site. I personally learn every day.
But I will not accept ALL the blame. And it appears that the LBS take 90% of it. And I believe that is an unreasonable amount of blame. 50/50 is a better value.
When I look at some of the old posts by Coach and others, it wasn't so one sided. Go back and see for yourselves.
Where are the consequences for bad behavior?
They no longer exist on this site...
I will sign off for a while. As you all know, sometimes you need a break from this site...
Good luck all...
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012
