LITB, Yup, i can see why you feel that M might be over. The key here as you said is forgiveness.
In life we dont achieve much by holding on to past hurts. If your wife realizes that, even after this injunction and decides to start life fresh with you and totally let go of the past, then yes, both of you can build a better future together.
BITS M 38 W 36 D 7 Married 15 yrs W left for 6 months in 2009 W Filed for D 01/03/11 piecing now...