XYZ is here, but I won't be staying...

[Jack_Three_Beans]

I agree X.

I do not want to be the cold water in your shower.

She has a lot to prove to you still. Right?

Do not remove those burdens of proof because you become hopeful/excited/desirous.

When this all starts the hard parts are: dettaching, GALing, coming to terms, working on ourselves.

In Piecing, I guess I'd say that hardest part for me was: not letting my hope outpace her abilities to move forward.

Whenever I did I got burned.
Which I quickly learned...was my fault. Not her telling me that, me realizing that.

Pacing; is critical.