XYZ is here, but I won't be staying...

[XYZ]

Trying to find the balance between dim & no pursue and just a little bit as w is now interested in piecing - but no pressure and slow....

I have the kids tomorrow night. Sent TM to W: "if you don't have other plans, you are welcome to join kids and I tomorrow for pizza night".

Her: "I may have plans tomorrow, how about tonight?"

me: "Sounds good"

I took that as a really good interaction. I made a no-pressure offer, she had plans, but came back with an offer. I think that's great. Same plan for me as the other day - no pressure, no R talk, just fun and attractive.