WAW, Filing as Fast as Possible

[aeolianchaos]

I've got a quandary. W is asking me to watch her cat for another month or so until its convenient for her to take it to her folk's place.

I don't want to. The cat is p!ss!ng on the kitchen rug every other day now, and I'm sick of cleaning that up.

My feeling is, W is choosing to end her marriage because, in her words 'I feel this is whats best for me'. She doesn't take me or my feelings into consideration, so why should I continue to take care of her cat and let her lead her successful life while I'm picking up chit (literally)?

I am inclined to write this in response:

"
No, I'm not ok with taking care of Cat until then.

She is peeing on the kitchen rug every few days and I do not think its worthwhile for me to have to deal with this. As you have said many times, she is 'your cat'. Not 'our cat'. Since you are choosing to end our marriage because you 'think its best for you', I have no reason to continue to take care of your cat for you.

You will need to find a person or place to take Cat until you can go to your parents."

Any thoughts? I am not trying to be manipulating, I'm just tired of feeling played and taken advantage of.