Why six months? Why not six years?

Seriously, there's no book, no time clock, no official prescription. Don't we move forward in our own time? I am not looking to get married, move in with anyone or get into any kind of relationship where I have to weigh their needs against the needs of my daughters.

But I would like to get out and date again. A movie, a dinner, a lunch, a wedding in October.

Look, if I wait until I have no feelings or thoughts about XW then I might as well join a monastery. They'll lessen over time, but they'll never go away.


Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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