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That being said, I feel like I'm at the point of accepting that my M cannot be saved

We never know what the future holds for us. The only thing you can do is hope and do your best. Leave the rest to a higher power.

You need to chalk your convo with your wife as a lil positive. Seems like there were no bad feelings.

As both of you keep doing these things, love might blossom again. who knows.

However you have to understand. The D might go through. But that's okay. It is just paper. If love blossoms and you guys decide to get back again, then re-marry. Take new vows. Then both of you can look at this event as a new beginning and start fresh. Your marriage can be stronger than before.