CL, it would seem like you have assumed the female role in your relationship with your wife. It would also seem that your wife is not happy, nor attracted, by that dynamic.
Starsky
I have to be careful of not avoiding opportunities and responsibilities for assertiveness as they arise. I have been putting effort into avoiding "egg-shell walking" around her. I'm more willing to work thru unpleasantness.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
