4 months........

[~¤DG¤~]

The support of this board has been my ROCK let me tell you.
The thoughts and prayers, 2x4's, all of it.
I appreciate all of you for helping me though this.

25- I don't want to make an assumption, but based on that text it sounds to me like we're over. He just can't bring himself to say it.

[XYZ]

I don't want to make an assumption, but based on that text it sounds to me like we're over.

DG - We haven't really met but if you want feel free to check out my thread over in piecing.

I can't even begin to count how many times my W told me that we where "done" or "over" or that she was "dead to me inside" or similar...and yesterday she suggested therapy.

It's over when YOU decide it's over.

[Talkartoon]

Hi DG,

What are you going to do today? If you have to work, can you do somthing after? Get a massage, go for a hike, take an SPCA dog for a walk, do something fun with a good friend or family, turn a corner of a room into a cozy library or work-out space, plant a garden?

I hope you have a peaceful day.

Talk

[notsosunny]

Good suggestions Talk.Maybe I need to do a few of them

Garden check
walk / hike check
walk the dog check

And now i can go to work for another 3 day weekend lol
Take care DG
You'll make it thru

Sunny

[GAL Man]

DG, thinking of you ((hugs))

Its my 12th anniversary next sunday!!!!

[Timetotry]

DG,

Not that I am expert, actually far from it but I see that text differently. I see that in some way he still reached out to you on your anniversary together. He is saying he is confused, needs time/space and he feels bad putting you through it.

Yes, its up to YOU if YOU choose to end it now but I don't see him making that final decision based on what he wrote just yet.

[LearningPatience]

I agree with TTT. Your H is still broken and confused. He knows it, but doesn't know how to fix it.

[JustStunned]

DG, hang in there. Look forward, not back. He didn’t say he was done. You have not said you are done. You do deserve better.

Take the gift of space, make some time to heal. You have come far on this journey and there is more slogging to come.

You can and you will persevere. You are worth it. Your kids are worth it.

Give your S the gift of space. Recognize that what he does with it is his decision.

[jbnati]

Hang in there, DG. I don't think he's done. NC is definitely in order. He is working on himself. He is on his own journey. You've made a lot of progress, and you can use this time he needs to make even more progress with yourself.

I still have to like your chances of R. I think it's going to take some more time.

[Brian in Hville]

Hey DG..Sorry I haven't posted much to you lately. I just want you to know we all pray for you daily and that you are loved.

Brian