Thank you!! I am reading the books and have studied the majority of the resources. I do keep looking back over them though.

25mlc has really been encouraging too in my GAL.

Seems I am more angry these days. Going to Al Anon. HE is an alcoholic. Huge hurdle for him.

But, as of late I am really struggling with this OW thing. I go to bed thinking of her and wake up thinking of her.

I wonder how long hehas been plannning this? DOes he love her?
Yuck. So unlike him which seems like a common thread in MLC.
And just all the lies that went into this whole "realtionship" thing with her!!

I do understand the "believe none of what they do and half of what they say." Interesting though how I pick out what I want to believe. The parts to me that bring me hope. Silly I guess.