I have been posting on other sites and forgot about mine...oops
Well.......still going to a alanon mtg once a week. Our fishing date did not materalize because of the weather (storms) but we did go for a long Sunday drive in the air conditioned truck which was real nice. We love to explore different areas.....and just relax.
I got really angry about the way my hubby was yelling at me the other day.....( over a razor ) He went way over the top. I'm noticing this happening more and more. I calmly told him that until he could talk to me with respect and NOT scream at me I was not going to respond, and left the room. He wasn't drinking nor had he that week.
I did figure out what was bothering him,, Fathers day....He lost his father whom he worked with and really respected 10 years ago. He had been in the garden using his dad's rototiller, and he was just zoned out and had tears in his eyes. He has never really dealt with his death...their family just doesn't show emotions unless it is anger. So i guess I was the easy target.
I lost my dad 28 years ago and his birthday in May was really hard for me this year. Hubby does not remeber birthdays well but did realize that I was down and asked me about it. Thats progress for us.
See we are always a work in motion.. So glad I found this site years ago
