H called tonite to organise the movie on Sunday. Keen isn't he. We talked for 20mins about work and the gym etc. So nice to be able to talk to him again.
Just as I was getting S3 for bed H texts to tell me the time the movie will be on. We exchange a few flirty messages and then he sends the following text:
H: I hope that we work this out Red, like you wrote in your letter Me: Is that what you want? H: Yes. I think that getting to know each other again whilst giving each other space is good? Me: I like the getting to know each other idea. I couldn't however, consider being with you if you are still with another person H: I understand that. I am presently extracating myself from a difficult situation and this is the main reason I am leaving X (current work place) Me: I understand. And I'm glad you read my letter. I meant what I said H: Hopefully time will heal us. I just pray that by the time I have sorted out my shyte Johny (personal trainer at gym) hasn't snapped you up Me: Johny is the least of your problems . I trust you'll get your shyte sorted. I've never lost faith in you.
Sorry guys but I'm doing a little happy dance. I know I'm not supposed to but I can't help it. Its been an effen hard 3 months! And I realise pls believe me I do, that this is not over. He is still with OW. But I have been DBing my little tushy off so this baby step forward feels so good!
W - 31 H - 33 Married - 7 years Together - 10 yrs Kids - S 3yrs old Separated - 27/03/11 OW - 10/04/11