I'm glad you're not going to contact exH about this issue over OW's status again. It is annoying you ... I can tell ... but, your ExH does not seem like a very communicative, truthful person, so you're really butting your head against a wall, and getting nothing for the pain. It seems even OW doesn't know where she stands. Be thankful you're out of that madness. I mean, who just leaves a person when someone turns up?
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim