I admit this kind of made me laugh. MLC is the very definition of poor behavior. I certainly don't excuse it. But I don't fight against it either. It is pointless. That is the point of these boards. I work with it as best I can. My H has to muddle through it on his own. I have the choice to leave at any point, as does he. You may not feel OK in a similar situation. But I continue to be OK with my decisions while also knowing that there are no guarantees.
OK then, good luck.
Not really sure why you post here then, other than to vent.
In any event, I've given you my perspective, and I'll leave it at that.