can you adjust your profile and put some quick facts in your signature? I ask this so I don't confuse you with someone else and it refreshes my memory on each situation.
So, 2 days dark...hopefully you will gain benefit from this. You may think it's about getting HIM to feel or do something, or to make him react. It's NOT.
It is about doing a 180, it is about YOU having some peace without all his drama, and it's about you starting to heal.
Hopefully the kids will start too as well. They're used to him travelling so some of the adjustments will be easier.
So he didn't show up on Father's Day? Ouch, esp for them.
Okay so what else is going on ?
And what are your GAL activities?
have you gone to Al Anon? I don't ask you to go to Al Anon so you can reconcile with him, so much as to stop you trying to fix him.
IT is NOT YOUR JOB TO FIX HIM....AND IT IS IMPOSSIBLE ANYHOW.
LIFE IS SHORT...so very short.
You'll also want to understand him...you will spend countless YEARS of your life on that...
and it won't make any difference. He's NOT knowable to you. Accept that.
You cannot protect yourself from your past.
IT's over so let it go. Don't mope or over blame yourself for past mistakes. Don't "live there".
Your future is yours....protect that, and your kids.
It's enough for now to just have peace.
Are you financially ok?
Have you seen a L?
Keep posting
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
