Hi, I just caught up on your thread. I can't give you any advice, but you remind me of both me and my H in many ways.

This forum really helps so much, even if it's only by getting your thoughts out there, and out of your head.

Are you sure you don't want to remain cat-sitter for a while, if only to keep a link with your W?

Have a good night, Talk

M: 44
H: 45
T: 26
M: 24
S: 23