Hi Al, so good to hear from you. I hope things are going well. Can you give us an update on how your sitch is going?

What did your H do to freak out OW?

My H is not frequently emailing, texting or calling. We stick to our schedule, that is 1 outing per week and he sees S3 1 day/night during weekend. Although now he is asking me to join them on the weekend. This will be the first weekend I will be joining them. I actually took my cue from you and the dinners you were having with your D and H.

Im trying to main detachment but to be honest it is difficult. And patience is at times excrutiating. But I know it is the only way to get through this roller coaster ride. But probably the hardest thing to deal with is trying not to believe any of what H says. H has said he has not ruled out reconciling, he has talked about us living together and buying a new car, he wants us to come to BILs engagement party, he wants us to join him interstate for the weekend, he wants me to sleep over at his apartment. Yet in saying all of this he is still with OW.


W - 31
H - 33
Married - 7 years
Together - 10 yrs
Kids - S 3yrs old
Separated - 27/03/11
OW - 10/04/11