You sound like you're doing really well. Most MLCers eventually see that the OW is not all they are cracked up to be. Your sitch sounds a lot like mine in that my H never could stop emailing, texting, having dinner etc with me. If you can maintain detachment it might work OK for you. But you can't have expectations. It's good that you can find some humor in the way the OW acts. I learned after the fact, that my H's behavior really freaked out the x-OW. They are very insecure. Keep up the good work!
"Love me when I least deserve it, for that is when I need it the most"
M18 Me39,H42 D16 Bomb 1/10 Moved out 3/10 OW 6/10 H wants to R,OW gone 11/10 H moves back 5/11 H wants to wear rings again 9/11