Actually, it doesn't matter whether they are angry or not, because once you've stepped away from the drama, you can laugh about all of the crazy things they have said or done.

My xh said many, many crazy things that truly made him the loony tune of this forum. The Easter Egg took the cake way back in June of 2000 and believe me when I say this, I still shake my head and laugh over that one.

I still want to know what is up with the kitty litter box...

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.